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WIVES  

TO  HUSBANDS

TAKE THIS TEST AS A SELF-TEST OR AS A CROSS-TEST (YOUR HUSBAND RATES YOU) ON HOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP RATES - THIS IS BETWEEN EACH OTHER ONLY; 100% OR BETTER IS PASSING, GOOD LUCK ! 

WIVES:  HOW  METICULOUS  IN AND/OR UNDERSTANDING OF THESE TRAITS ARE YOU ? 
T R A I T S   VERY 
8 pts.
MODERATELY
6 pts. 
SLIGHTLY
4 pts. 
1. Acting, yes acting (Sometimes helps!)                
2. Appearance (Neat, Clean-when poss.)      
3. Balabusteh (Presentable home)      
4. Caring (Considerate, selfless)       
5. Cooperation (Unite, agree)      
6. Courteous (Speech, behavior)       
7. Ductile or flexible (not-stubborn)      
8. Giving (Gifts, your time)      
9. Grudgeless (Forgettory broken)       
10. Language (shouting, nasty)       
11. Loving and Affection (Appreciation, etc.) )       
12. Pleasant (Soft spoken, good mood)      
13. Relating (Discuss, communicate)       
14 Respectful (Honor, cherish)       
15. Stable personality (Equanimeous)     

SUGGESTIONS THAT MAY ALLEVIATE THE LOW RATINGS  

1. Surprise with an agreement rather than with an argument.

2. Keep an eye on his low mood and bolster or soothe him.. 

3. Offer your husband help with his activities.

 4. Dress special for him too.

 5. Buy a gift occasionally and complement him from time to time.

 6. Work on your sense of humor. 

7. Plan on a gettiing away together for a weekend or Yom Tov. 

8. Agree wiyh him alot , you will see how he gives in to you much more. 

9. Ask for his opinion and he will recognize or settle your way. 

10. Do not treat your husband like a Shmateh or consider him like a couch or a handy person to have around. 

11. In case of difficulties don't be too proud to talk things over with a trusted person and get help. Don't go directly to parents or relatives. 

HUSBANDS  

TO  WIVES

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TAKE THIS TEST AS A SELF-TEST OR AS A CROSS-TEST (YOUR WIFE RATES YOU) ON HOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP RATES - THIS IS BETWEEN EACH OTHER ONLY; 100% OR BETTER IS PASSING, GOOD LUCK ! 

HUSBANDS:   HOW  METICULOUS  IN AND/OR UNDERSTANDING OF THESE TRAITS ARE YOU ? 
T R A I T S - ( ) indicates the opposite trait, deduct the pts. if applicable ! VERY
12 Pts.
MODERATELY
9 pts.
 SLIGHTLY
6 pts. 

1. Ambitious (Lethargic) 

     

2. Argumentative (Discuss quietly) 

     

3. Attentive (unalert)

     

4. Cooperation (Difficult)

     

5. Enthusiastic (Boring)

     

6. Helpful (Unsupportive)

     

7. Interesting to be with (Dull) 

     

8. Promulgate security (Insecure)

     

9. Providing needs (Inconsiderate)

     

10. Together & associative (Selfish and aloof) 

     

 SUGGESTIONS THAT MAY ALLEVIATE THE LOW RATINGS 

1. Surprise your wife with coffee in bed in the morning. 

2. If wife is feeling no.k. bring food to bed, pamper her a bit, ask how she feels and what help she needs.

3. Help wife in home with some chores. 

4. Budget some time to take her out to suitable and fitting places.

5. Buy her a gift and complement her and her performance all the time. 

6. Plan on outings and vacations together for a weekend or a Yom Tov.

7. Develop a tasteful sense of humor, it can go a long way towards a better relationship. 

8. Don't argue using logic, whatever you do.

9. Throw a secret surprise party once in awhile. 

10. Do not view your wife as less intelligent as yourself. 

11. Do not treat your wife like a cook and housekeeper. 

12. In case of difficulties Don't be too proud to talk things over with a trusted person and get help. Don't go directly to parents or relatives.

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